Publisher: Self Published
Review in one word: Transmutation
Rating: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
“Only The Moon Understands The Beauty Of Love” by Thomas Slatin is a touching and thoroughly beautiful memoir that intricately blends personal anecdotes, reflections, and poetic prose. The book delves into the author’s life journey. It’s marked by moments of joy, sorrow, reflection, memory and profound introspection. I was really honoured to be asked to read this by my friend Thomas and I hope she will excuse how long the review took.
Throughout “Only The Moon Understands The Beauty Of Love,” Thomas intricately weaves together personal anecdotes, reflections, and poetic prose that offers readers a profound exploration of life’s complexities.

Slatin’s journey from childhood to adulthood is marked by moments of joy, sorrow, and poignant realisation. Her story is a testament to her immense resilience and strength required to navigate through life’s challenges, of which she is well acquainted. There are threads of strength, resilience and beauty and the healing effects of love and connection. There’s also themes of unrequited love, missed opportunities, and the passage of time throughout the memoir. Thomas’s story encourages readers to reflect on their own tough and triumphant experiences and the transient nature of existence.
Thomas’s reflections on unfulfilled dreams and the beauty of “almost” moments resonate deeply, reminding us that every experience, no matter how fleeting, still holds significance.
As Thomas recounts her experiences of feeling like a misfit, embracing individuality, and striving for self-acceptance, readers are invited to find strength and beauty in owning their own individuality and uniqueness.
Her candid discussions about the pressures of living up to others’ expectations, the dangers of ego and fame, and the importance of staying true to oneself provide valuable insights for anyone undergoing personal challenges.
The memoir’s structure alternates between narrative and poetic segments. This makes for flowing and rich storytelling. Her ability to transform everyday occurrences into profound reflections is particularly enjoyable and offers a nice armchair journey into the memories of her life.
Ultimately, Only The Moon Understands The Beauty Of Love serves as a poignant reminder of the power of love, friendship, personal growth, resilience, and the ongoing quest for meaning.
Her introspective approach and the rich tapestry of emotions and insights that are conveyed make this a rich, relatable and inspiring read. Reflections on the importance of letting go, seizing the moment, and embracing life’s uncertainties are universally applicable, encouraging readers to find beauty and purpose in their own journeys.
This memoir is not only a personal testament to Slatin’s growth and discoveries but also a source of inspiration for anyone facing changes and seeking to navigate the complexities of life with grace and authenticity.
Only The Moon Understands The Beauty Of Love is a well-crafted memoir that offers a unique perspective on life’s complexities. I found it very enjoyable and I hope you will too.
You can buy a copy of this wonderful memoir through Barnes and Noble and please subscribe to her website, where she has an ongoing blog series of fascinating writerly miscellania as well.


I was genuinely thrilled to come across your review of my book on your blog. Your words left me utterly speechless. I couldn’t help but smile—one of the biggest smiles I’ve had in quite some time. The nostalgia you evoked felt both timeless and perfect, bringing tears to my eyes as I reflected on a lifetime of being rejected for my differences. But those very differences have become my greatest strength, my superpower. Thank you once again for your support and encouragement!
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It was a great honour to do it and sorry it took so long. You should be proud of all you’ve managed to overcome in your life and the wisdom you gained from it all. Big hugs and I’m really glad it had such a strong and positive emotional impact ✨️ 💗
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